A Passover Message from Michal Bonell

In life, it’s all too easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of daily routines, responsibilities, and the pursuit of future goals. However, in doing so, we sometimes overlook the very things that matter most — the relationships, the fleeting moments, and the small joys that make life meaningful. It’s essential to not pass over these important aspects, as they are often the source of true fulfillment.

One of the most significant things we tend to pass over is our relationships with the people around us. We can become so focused on career success or personal achievements that we forget the importance of family, friends, and community. The love and connection we share with others are irreplaceable. At the end of the day, no amount of money or material possessions will provide the same sense of fulfillment as the bonds we create with those we care about. It’s crucial to invest time in nurturing these relationships, offering support, listening with empathy, and spending quality time together. Sometimes, a simple conversation or a gesture of kindness can have a profound impact on someone’s life, and in turn, yours.

Another often overlooked aspect of life is the present moment. In our fast-paced world, we tend to focus on the future, always striving for the next milestone. While ambition and forward-thinking are important, we must also learn to appreciate where we are now. The present is the only moment we truly have control over, and it holds the potential for growth, joy, and reflection. Whether it’s savoring a quiet morning cup of coffee, enjoying the beauty of nature, or simply spending time in solitude, these moments of mindfulness are what create a sense of contentment. Passing over the present in pursuit of some distant future can lead to feelings of emptiness, as we overlook the richness of the here and now.

Additionally, our own well-being is something that is often neglected in the pursuit of other goals. We may push ourselves too hard, ignoring the signals our bodies and minds send us. Overworking, not getting enough rest, or neglecting mental health can take a serious toll. Self-care isn’t selfish — it’s necessary for us to function at our best in all aspects of life. Taking time for self-reflection, rest, exercise, and mental health care allows us to show up as our best selves for others.

It’s crucial to find a balance between our responsibilities and our personal needs.

Lastly, we must not pass over the opportunities to learn and grow. Life is full of chances for growth, whether through education, new experiences, or self-discovery. When we become too fixated on the end result, we may miss the lessons that come with the journey. Every challenge or setback offers a lesson that can enhance our personal growth and resilience. Embracing these moments rather than dismissing them will allow us to develop a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us.

In conclusion, life is not just about the goals we strive for but about appreciating the people, moments, and lessons along the way. By not passing over the important things — the relationships, the present moment, our well-being, and the opportunities for growth — we can live a richer, more fulfilling life. It’s a reminder to slow down, take a step back, and prioritize the things that truly matter.

Michal Bonell is Senior Account Manager and Team Supervisor for Atlanta Jewish Times.